Thinking about sex with your ex? Here are the rules to follow…and how to make that one last romp epic
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Plus, a further 30 per cent make a half-hearted second go, but don’t stay together. Guess their ‘seconds’ were sloppy, not satisfying.
Either way, if you’re feeling all Take That and want them back for good – or for a few good times – why not make it fun?
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Play-up the no-strings sex
You had broken up and who knows what the future holds? So agree that slipping between the sheets is for no strings sex.One survey found that spelling out the terms – in this case ‘no strings’ – freed up people to relax and let go.Ex-periment
Was there something you always wanted to try but never did when together? Time to sex-periment.
Maybe you secretly wanted to get playful with anal.
Suggest a little pleasurable, gentle fingering.
But don’t forget bedroom manners – if you want to do it to them, you have to let them do it to you.
You don’t have to plan much. Simply slip your finger into a condom.
With lashings of lubricant gently circle their anal-zone with your fingertip. They may want your finger to go further!
You can teach new tricks to an old dog
Did second-rate sex contribute to breaking-up? But are their other good qualities drawing you back?Go for it – tell them exactly what turns you on.
Show them moves you want – maybe more caressing of your breasts, gentle pinching of your nipples, a different oral sex technique, or squeezing of your bottom, etc.
You’ve nothing to lose. Hiding your real desires now is pointless.
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Fan the flames of fantasy
You’ve got back together, maybe for a weekend “trial” or maybe moving back in.Use your time apart to fuel frisky fantasy-chat.
Describe in dirty detail how you’d fantasise about them swanning into your office.
Locking the door and taking you on your desk. It was raunchy, you proclaimed how much you missed each other.
Or maybe you fantasise about discovering them in bed with someone else. When they saw you they realised you were far better in bed – chucking the other person out.
There are countless fantasy scenarios to describe.
A new twist on old territory
You already know what gets them tingling with excitement – touching them with latex gloves on (does it for some!) or tickling them with a feather duster, whatever.So take them through this bedroom A-Z you once shared.
But then change it up. For instance, if your ex loved Doggy position, slip into the ‘Lazy Doggy’ for different sensations.
From her being on her hands and knees – with him behind – she slips down onto her elbows, tilting her hips up.
And he can slip a vibrator around her hips to stimulate her clitoral zone for extra kicks.
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Dump the body shyness
Over 60 per cent of women say body shyness has held them back in a relationship.Let’s be realistic: you two are exes who are getting jiggy, so flaunt some body confidence!
She can strut around in new knickers, bras, suspenders, or a sexy baby doll in high heels.
Confidence is mega-attractive.
Same goes for him, strut your stuff in some sexy briefs… maybe even black leather studded ones!
They’ll get a laugh even if they don’t turn her on.
Ultimately, your good-time get-together might just be a frolic where they’re concerned. If you’re hoping for a second chance, spell it out so you don’t get hurt. share if you like it. click here to like our page on facebook
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